Bali: Coming Home
(Jamison speaking) So it's over. Wow. I can't believe 4 months went by so fast. Indonesia was a blast. I ended up staying for a week after the program with a couple of my friends to visit Yogyakarta in Java, the island west of Bali. Certainly a much different feel than Bali as there is a clear presence of Islam and the city feels bigger and busier with "becaks" (rickshaws) pedaling about. I loved it--we saw a fantastic wayang kulit show, found fantastic batik paintings, and took a trip to Borobudur, the largest Buddhist monument in the world. This was a highlight for me as it is up there with the 7 Wonders of the World as it is truly amazing.
Coming back home on the 22nd of December was a long journey with a flight out of Denpasar, Bali to Hong Kong to Los Angeles and at last to Chicago. Everyone has talked about reverse culture shock happening, and I guess it has to an extent. I initially found everything back home really plush and people annoying for complaining so much. When I think back to my homestay family in Bali and then look around my home environment I do feel a little guilty.
The cold of Chicago has been a bit of a shock too. I was sweating like crazy the day I left Bali and arrived home with my mom meeting me with my winter coat. Adjusting to wearing shoes instead of flip flops everyday is interesting. Going back to school for the Spring semester will be the big challenge I think as I've basically missed out on whatever has been happening on campus since May. Hopefully all goes well.
I figured I'd do my final post with a list of thoughts and reflections on my experience.
What I have learned:
-How to kind of speak Bahasa Indonesia
-rice tastes good with everything
-all about the traditional arts of Bali
-all about Indonesian culture
-all about ancestor worship in the highlands
-how to be low-maintenance
-how to bargain for all of life's activities
-you can pay $5USD for a decent hotel room
-you can really trust strangers (I've been invited into many of their houses for coffee and to meet their families)
-I still don't really know how to tie a sarong
-bemos are awesome
-black rice pudding and tempe blows my mind
-you can wear sandals 100% of the time
-it's ok to brush your teeth with tap water
-it's ok to bathe in river water
-it's better to eat at dirty-looking restaurants with customers than clean-looking ones that are empty. It will save your stomach
-papaya and yellow watermelon are tasty
-always carry an umbrella during the rainy season
-stepping on a sea urchin would be a life disaster
it's more acceptable for two members of the same sex to hold hands
walking down the street than two members of the opposite sex (but
homosexuality isn't really acknowledged)
-bathing in hot water in a rare and precious experience
-how to wash all of my clothes by hand and that this was apparently an exciting event for my homestay family as everyone came into the bathroom to watch me scrubbing on the floor
-it is not important to be fashionable, however neatness is preferred
-instead of getting a cold or the flu in Bali you just get a lot diarrhea
-it's ok to play with stray dogs and cats
-it's usually ok to play with monkeys
-Bali has millions of chickens wandering down the streets
-fried bananas are actually pretty good
-how to farm a rice field
-how to weave a sarong
-arak (a strong palm wine) is nasty
-Bob Marley is too popular
-I love Bali!
What I was excited for coming home:
-seeing my family and friends (and cats)
-being able to drink tap water
-having a hot shower
-Western-style toilets
-not sweating all day long
-carbs other than rice
-snow (kind of)
What I miss:
-All the amazing Indonesians I met along the way over the past 4 months
-My homestay families in Munduk Pakel, Bedulu, and Sukawana
-Black rice pudding and tempe
-a more relaxed pace of life
-the beautiful Hindu temples and offerings around the island
-living on a chicken farm . . .
-the smell of incense everywhere
-program center parties/lunches/down-time
-the pantai and mountains
-Being able to bargain and 30 cents for a 15 minute bemo ride
-the most ridiculous TV shows (like Supermama) I have ever seen
-Indopop
-having it be socially acceptable to wear a sarong in public
-adorable Balinese children
-having people tell me I was really really good at Indonesian when I spoke one sentence
-the 7 girls, Katelyn, Bria, Slaveya, Margot, Nikki, Tammy, and Eliza who made Bali a blast!
Cheers! I can't wait to go back!
-Jamison













